A proud Mulinjahli woman from the Bundjalung Nation, Aboriginal Elder, and alum of Bouverie’s Graduate Certificate in Family Therapy (First Nations) program, Aunty Darleen provides family counselling through Bouverie’s Walk-in Together clinic. But her path to higher education was not always straightforward.
“As an Aboriginal child, I was always told by my teachers that I would never amount to anything,” she said.
“These comments were due to the extreme racism of the time in North Queensland, and I carried my shame for many years. If only they could see me now.”
Employed at the Victorian Aboriginal Child and Community Agency (VACCA), Aunty Darleen saw an opportunity to undertake The Bouverie Centre's Graduate Certificate in Family Therapy (First Nations). The program equips practitioners with family therapy skills that are trauma-informed and culturally grounded.
“I saw this as a great opportunity to be qualified, so I eagerly applied.”
When her initial application to study was rejected by her manager, she refused to give up.
“I was determined not to let that stop me, so I consulted with the assistant manager, who was shocked that I was denied further education. She immediately advocated for me and was successful in having the decision overturned. From this, my further education started.”
The course proved transformative both professionally and personally.
“My reflective journal is testament of the sessions that challenged me emotionally and helped my heart to heal.”
One of her proudest memories was graduating with her mother in attendance.
“My amazing mum, at age 92, came down to Bouverie to attend my graduation. She was very proud, because she never had the opportunity to go past primary school education.”
“The Grad Cert has advanced me in the workforce to many different job opportunities. It’s enabled me to stand equal with my peers, instead of being the underdog.”
Today, Aunty Darleen uses the skills and confidence she gained through the Graduate Certificate to support families through Bouverie's Walk-in Together clinic, a free family counselling service delivered by The Bouverie Centre.
“I have enjoyed working in the clinic as it has provided me with hands-on experience liaising with families in crisis situations who require counselling.”
The impact of this work is reflected in the stories of the families she supports through the clinic. She recalls one that stood out to her.
“An Aboriginal brother and sister came to the Walk-in Together clinic seeking a pathway to resolving trauma between each other.”
“After several sessions, the siblings' relationship was showing great signs of improving, and as an Aboriginal Elder, I was able to help them on their pathway to reconciliation.”
For Aunty Darleen, Bouverie's commitment to allyship is reflected through the truly safe spaces they have created for First Nations therapists and families alike. Where truth-telling and reconciliation can occur.
“To recognise the strength and contribution of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples, it enables a fuller and more accurate account of Australia's history. This truth-telling is fundamental to advancing reconciliation.”
Reflecting on her journey, Aunty Darleen spoke of the confidence and purpose she has gained through her work.
“The Grad Cert was the best education I ever had and has given me a profound sense of who I am, which is a proud Aboriginal woman who continues to support many families through their traumas.”
Learn more about The Bouverie Centre or about the Graduate Certificate in Family Therapy: First Nations.
