Quiz

Respectful relationships - where do you stand?

A younger sister or female friend is about to begin a relationship. Imagine that a group of people you respect asks you the following:

  1. How would you want her relationship to begin?
  2. What should she insist on in terms of her partner’s behaviour?
    1. How and when sex happens?
    2. How they decide what they do together?
    3. How they talk to each other?
    4. How they decide what they do by themselves?
  3. What should she not stand for in terms of her partner’s behaviour?
    1. How and when sex happens?
    2. How they talk to each other?
    3. How they decide what they do together?
    4. How they decide what they do by themselves?
  4. These are likely to be the things you are committed to regarding relationships. They express what you value but are they what you do or experience?
    1. How do they begin?
    2. How do the follow things get negotiated?
    3. How and when sex happens?
    4. How you decide what you do by yourselves?
    5. How you talk to each other?
    6. How you decide what you do together?
  5. If what you value and are committed to is out of sync with what you do and experience it is a good idea to take action to regain this type of integrity. LTU Counselling Service can help with this.